June 18, 2019

Home Revamp with Decor Haven

Meet Adrienne from Décor Haven, her home is fab!!!

I won a birthday contest hosted by Décor Haven’s owner Adrienne on her IG page a few months ago. Now Adrienne and I have known each other for quite some time, we’re sorority sisters and she’s also one of my close friends. I entered the contest initially just to make sure that Adrienne had access to my network without the intention of winning, but I was very surprised and excited when I won. I’ve seen Adrienne’s work time and time again (look at her IG) and it shows that she is very passionate about what she does and is taking the necessary steps to ensure that this part-time business will become a full-time venture.




Time to stage



The prize included an online consultation of a small space to be decorated, an online portfolio of that space and 30 mins of staging. From the announcement of winning to the actual staging everything was very professional and done in a timely manner. I chose my entryway to be designed as it’s a bit unwelcoming. I described my style to Adrienne during the consultation and provided items that I currently had that could be used in decorating the space. Because I’ve seen Adrienne’s work I didn’t have any restrictions on the space. I was very surprised when Adrienne mentioned that my prize also included $100 worth of decorations. After the initial consultation, Adrienne provided me with the online portfolio that mapped out her vision. Once I viewed the portfolio, we decided on a date to complete the work.


The before look included a headboard and a cute pink tool box




Adrienne arrived with tools in tow and the additional items that she purchased to pull my space together which included a new colorful rug, candle, dreamcatcher, catch all dish, and a faux plant. During the staging, Adrienne kept me informed every step of the way with her progress. My newly designed entryway describes my personality as well as the overall vibe of my home; warm, eclectic and unapologetic. I cannot wait for my friends and family to come over and see her work in person. 




When in doubt contact a professional...

Walah… magic



My gallery wall totally fits me


I'm loving this cute catch-all and terra cotta candle


Can you tell I'm addicted to cacti?

Although I won this contest, I will be reaching out to Adrienne for assistance with other areas of my home. Because of the quality of work and professionalism provided by Adrienne, I’d recommend her over and over again. Join me in supporting local small businesses run by women.



June 16, 2019

Home Sweet Home...




Your girl has officially been a homeowner for a little over 6 months. Let me tell you… this was not something that I even imagined at the beginning of 2018. After a string of unexpected lay-offs my main thing was just to live on my own. And if I’m keeping it all the way real, I NEVER wanted to own a home without a spouse, however, God’s plan. Honestly, I am beyond blessed to be able to handle such a large responsibility on my own. The first six months of homeownership has already taught me sooo many lessons.

  • Sh*t Happens – There is no amount of home inspections nor walk throughs that’ll let you know every single issue or problem regarding your home. New appliance will break just as quick as old appliances and since we can’t control the weather, external damage can be inevitable. I had to get my brand new HVAC system repaired (multiple times) and a bad windstorm peeled back the siding on my place.  Now there are certain moments in my life where I recall the fact that I’m a grown a** woman and doing home repairs is one of those times. 
Ice took over my HVAC

This happened...


  • Take Your Time – If you are a shopaholic like myself, you’ll want to buy EVERYTHING!!! However, taking your time and truly defining the vibe of your home makes a difference. Also, if you’re making a BIG purchase, you’ll want to be 100% sure of your choices. My BIG purchase was my sofa… Now I totally knew I wanted this beautiful green sofa while I was renting, but the price had me looking at less expensive options. I went back and forth and forth and back and all around before I decided to make the investment in what I really, really wanted. Taking your time could also be a bit tricky because I found THEE perfect coffee table and waited until it was sold out *insert angry face here*. Usually I’m really good about finding items that have sold out but nope, not this time. 





  • Get Organized – I lost count at the amount of documents I signed during closing. However, a few of those documents have come in handy during tax season. It’s best to have a set location for every document because there will come a day that you need it. Let me tell you… I am still working on having the type of organization you find in the magazines.
My fav little area and an attempt at organizing



Unexpected guest... robins eggs



June 8, 2019

2019 Veuve Cliquot Polo Classic




If you missed the Veuve Cliqout Polo Classic  this year you missed an entire vibe… think Black Excellence sprinkled with sophistirachet. The Polo classic is THEE ultra-posh affair that kicks off the Summer in style. Last year was my first time attending, however, this year was definitely better than last year because I knew what to expect. After experiencing such a great time I have to eat my words that I’d mentioned to my friends prior to arrival, saying that this year would be my last year springing for the $500 VIP ticket but… I LIED. While this event and trip to New York can get pretty expensive, it is well worth it in my opinion. After multiple lay-offs, (see previous blog post) I haven’t had a proper vacation so this event allowed me to enjoy a dope weekend getaway.







I found a cute hotel (thanks to Priceline) in the financial district with dope view of the water. We freshened up a bit and chose Chinese Tuxedo for a late night dinner. I really wished we made reservations because this this place was everything that you’d think a trendy NYC restaurant would be… very low lights,  exposed ducts huge plants, and everyone dressed like they’re headed to fashion week. Although we were unable to be seated at a table, we were able to snag a spot at the bar. The food and drinks were super delicious and they even had a secret cocktail room below. If you’re in New York, definitely check them out. Since the night was young, we decided to find a rooftop and continue drinking. Thanks to Yelp we were able to find a spot that was walking distance to our hotel. Loopy Doopy was a super cute rooftop bar with a view of the Hudson and located in the Conrad hotel that had alcoholic popsicle cocktails. The cocktails were just ok, but they made for a really cute IG boomerang lol. Can I just say that I want to stay in the Conrad hotel the next time  I’m in NYC. As much as we wanted to continue the nightlife we knew we had to get back because we’d planned on hitting the Polo Classic early this year.









Look at that skyline


As much as we wanted to get an early start it just didn’t work out that way. I woke up with a massive sinus headache and had to hunt down the only medicine that works for me. After my medicine kicked in we were able to get the party started. As we approached the water taxi,  I realized that VIP is a must. Just see for yourself as the pictures are worth more than a thousand words…


What a view...
Everyone looking dapper





The menu in VIP was BOMB











This was EVERYTHING!!!






The bottle straws came in handy




I started out super classy...




Then my entire mood changed after the champagne set in!!!
         Can't wait to do it again next year!!!